Coming Home is one of life's best moments. I believe it will be one of the next life's best moments also. So this blog is dedicated to what I view as the best moments of life.
The downside of having a large family is that finding a date for a reunion with no conflicts is impossible. The upside is that even at 75% the house is full of Stokers. 23 Stokers were in town, 8 of which didn't know they could come until the last minute. 4 Stokers were at large :( We missed them and will get them next time.
The official reunion started Saturday July 16, but the fun started with the arrival of the Brandon and Mallory Stokers on Wed. July 13,
followed by the Jacob and Alexa Stokers and Rebecca and the Nathan and Ariane Stokers on Friday. Erica and boys and the Eliza and Joseph Erickson family came on Saturday with Daniel arriving Sunday. We tried to get Andrew here on Monday, but the buddy pass gods were angry and he was not successful.
Jacob and Rebecca
Caden, Nathan and Rebecca
Each arrival added to the excitement, and it was demonstrated to me once again how motherhood is an investment that seems expensive at times but comes with some gigantic payoffs. I recognize the blessings that are mine and that I have received much more than I have given.
Sister surprise. Eliza didn't know Rebecca was coming.
Erica, Landon and Caleb. Mallory, Annabelle, Isaac and Josh, Hyrum
Sisters, Rebecca and Eliza
Cousins, Landon and Isaac
Daniel finally made it
Brandon's Annabelle and Eli and Nathan's Caden
Brandon's Josh and Isaac
Mallory and Josh
Eliza and Emmaline
The amazing maze Josh made for the talent show.
Nathan and Ariane
Caden meeting Uncle Brandon for the first time
learning the ways of Nerf
Brandon and Eli
Jacob and Isla watching the pop.
Daniel just loves sister cuddles.
Erica and Daniel
Brandon, Mallory and Josh. Eliza and Joseph
2 yr. old cousins Hyrum and Eli
Uncle Nathan and Emmaline
Caden and Ariane
Emmaline and Joseph
Grandpa reading Trumpets and Grumpets to Hyrum and Isla
Here's how it worked: Mallory planned all year with input from Joseph, Eliza, me and some others.. Jacob set up a google doc for shared ideas. I borrowed a million pack n plays, car seats, and boosters (Thank you friends.) One of my dearest most discerning friends saved the day by loaning her van for the week. It's the only way we were able to transport this crew. And Paul and I stayed at some vacationing friends' home to make room for everyone at our house. I don't know about my children and grandchildren, but I slept great.
We had some jobs to do before the reunion. We needed to prepare a talent for the talent show, make a movie for Oscar Night, and choose a song of the year for the family CD which Jacob compiled. Each family was in charge of a dinner and a lunch. Leftovers were allowed. Each family was also in charge of an activity. We filled in the schedule holes with swimming, movies, games and helping the babies.
Saturday night we kicked off the official festivities with the "Guess who chose this song" game. It's going to be a great CD this year.We always ask people to tell us their dreams so we can schedule it in. The talent show is my dream. My children and grandchildren gift me with performances that amaze my unbiased heart and I am happy.
Sunday we tried for a photo shoot before church for anyone who was ready. The mom's got the kids dressed and turned them over to the camera. We were joined by some dads for support. We click, click, clicked and called it good.
Emmaline
Emmaline, Caleb, Isla, Annabelle, Josh, Landon, Hyrum, Isaac
Joseph with Isla and Emmaline. Nathan with Caden. Brandon with Eli. Hyrum, Annabelle, Caleb, Josh, Landon, Isaac
Stokers filled up 2 pews at church. Best Sunday ever. The activity in the evening was dessert and Clue-cha-phone followed by other party games.
Monday was Nerf and a fantastic water activity planned by Nathan and Ariane. My lawn pouted after we spent hours on the slip and slide, but I love seeing the brown swath and remembering all my beloveds sliding down the soapy slope. Besides, this is Georgia. 10 days later and the grass has filled in again.
Tuesday was a big day, the first tri-annual Stoker Oscars, hosted by Brandon and Mallory. Our entries had been submitted, but the girls had to take a trip to the thrift store to purchase glitzy gowns. We not only found sparkly dresses, but bow ties and cummerbunds. Everyone looked fab.
This wedding dress was just so beautiful, it had to be modeled.
Oscar loot
Red carpet pics: Joseph, Eliza, Hyrum and Emmaline
Josh
Annabelle
Caleb
Hyrum
Gabe
Isaac
Eli
Caden, Ariane and Nathan
Brandon and Mallory
Erica, Caleb, Daniel and Landon
Jacob, Isla and Alexa
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Wednesday was awesome water balloon volleyball and other balloon games planned by Daniel and Erica. That night Eliza and Joseph had us playing, "Do you love your neighbor?" (a big hit with the cousins), and writing nice notes in everyone's autograph books. So much Stoker love going around.
Other activities included touring Senoia, the guys playing hotbox frisbee, jumping on the trampoline, crafts watching Dr. Who, cleaning up throw-up, taking many trips to the grocery store and one trip to the emergency room, a Nike factory outlet run, learning the "Fake ID" line dance, 200 loads of laundry, looking for keys, refereeing cousins and eating lots and lots of popcorn and ice cream.
Alexa finally eating a real GA peach.
Josh' s Lego creation. "The guy sleeps under the pool. And here's the food storage."
Waiting for the girls to come
And then family by family, they started to leave. Luckily, some stayed on for post reunion activities. That helped soften the blow. We had a girls shopping day, a southern experience at Truett's Luau,(the food is Hawaiian, but the restaurant is only found in Fayetteville) and an epic trip to Legoland.
Now we're down to 4 visitors. I love hearing their voices in my house, even the unhappy nighttime ones. They might as well just stay.
Where the video magic happened
Lake Horton
And just so we never forget the fun, Eliza and Joseph turned it all into this awesome music video. Thanks for the most fabulous party of the year. xoxoxoxox
My sister Mary and her family applied and were accepted to perform in the Hill Cumorah Pageant 2016. This pageant has been on my bucket list for years, so I knew this was the summer to make it happen. Last summer I thought I would just go last minute, but upon inquiry I learned that one doesn't just run up to Palmyra on Pageant weekend and expect to secure housing. It's a "no vacancy" situation. So, while winter was still chilling and darkening my days, I took the plunge and reserved a room for July with the hope that summer would, in fact, come again. I also invited my siblings and nieces and nephews. The only thing better than Palmyra, NY is Palmyra with people I love. Saying, "Hey, ya wanna meet at the pageant?" is no small request considering we all live at least a day's drive and some even further from this very special place in the history of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
Not everyone could make it, but those who did contributed to a wonderful reunion where I was reminded how kind God has been to bless me with lovely people in my life. The Stoker household has been reduced to a paltry 3 and even that number dropped when Gabe chose to skip the drive and stay home and attend Youth Conference. Paul volunteered to stay and help Gabe. The wisdom of that decision was confirmed when they both came down with a tummy bug 2 days before day of departure. My party was saved when my courageous and always fun friend consented to come along for an adventure. Who could pass up on an opportunity to get to know me and my family really well? Right, a lot of people. That's what makes her such a terrific friend.
We got to Rochester, NY without a hitch. It was so easy I can't even remember it. (You can feel the foreshadowing for a legendary tale fraught with peril on the trip home.) While I was standing in the Alamo line I overheard a gentleman talking to his father about the Priesthood Restoration Site. This got my attention and I had to ask about it. The church had just opened up a new historical site and as luck would have it, it was a mere 2.5 hrs. away. Done.
The Hale home. I wonder which of their babies used those strollers?
I had actually wanted to visit old Harmony, PA and the banks of the Susquehanna for a long time so I felt very blessed. Then we hurried back to Palmyra to meet our cute family for a tour of the Joseph Smith farm and Sacred Grove. These cute children made our tour infinitely more interesting. One little 4 yr. old sister told her 2 yr. old brother who said he wanted to climb a tree, "No. You can't climb a tree. You have to climb a bush."
The Palmyra temple spire
After the inspiring tour we split for a bit so my friend, Rebecca and I could get some dinner. We tried to go to the famed "Chill and grill" but we weren't the only ones with that idea. We saw the completely full parking lot and noted the line to the street and opted for Italian and felt great about our choice. At 8:55 we headed to the pageant which started at 9:15. We parked easily, found some great seats and watched a really amazing show with a cast of 700 depicting the stories from the Book of Mormon including Jesus Christ's ministry on the American Continent.
Day 2: We took our group of Tessa and Rachel's family and the 2 of us and headed to the Peter Whitmer log home where the church was organized. We were joined by 3 tour buses which made a cozy group. It was fun when I recognized one of the couple missionaries as parents of my friend from KS. It was even more fun because they served with my niece Katelyn when she was on her mission and went on and on about her awesomeness which always feels great.
Then we met up with Charlie and his family and Mary and her family. A little while later Susie and her family came. You know that feeling when you choose a spot in America and your people actually get there? Such love for all those beautiful faces!
We spent the afternoon just being together and hearing grand tales of the inner workings of the pageant: That one time when Jeff tried out for an action/movement/choreographed part as told by Katelyn. When the cast was rehearsing the most sacred moment of the show where everyone was supposed to be fixed on the face of Jesus, and Olivia was exploring about the stage.We saw some rehearsal and realized how much fun the kids are actually having when acting out the destruction of the city. All this inside scoop made the second viewing of the pageant even more enjoyable.
We spent the rest of the afternoon touring the Book of Mormon publication site and HIll Cumorah monument. And somehow we managed to get to the Chill 'n Grill. I can't decide which was better, the blueberry graham cracker or strawberry cheesecake ice cream.
Then it was time for the pageant again, but there was to be no coming in last minute. That's for Thursday night only. Friday was for real with saved seats, early parking, Mormon Haters, the works. We saw our people in their beautiful costumes and felt the excitement of wonderful things to come, and we weren't disappointed.
My sister, Mary, rockin' the brunette wig.
And then we woke up, visited with my sweet sister Susie who brought my birthday present because it's only 2 months away and said goodbye to these cute hotel buddies and their parents. .
We hurried to the airport to arrive in plenty of time for the 12:00 flight that we didn't get on. We tried out some new airport food and rewarded ourselves with a pastry. Rebecca chose a chocolate eclair from the specialty bakery. I chose a cinnamon doughnut from the ever elegant yet tried and true "Dunkin Doughnuts." Right before the 5:45 flight to ATL we grabbed a sundae and chicken wrap from McDonalds. We thought we'd need it for the 2 hr. flight to ATL but in fact we kindly relinquished our seats to all those whose flights had been delayed or rerouted as per regulations and had the whole night to party before trying to get out at 5:45 am the next day. We actually did party. We set up shop at the end of the B gates with comfy chairs, one for sitting and one for resting our feet. We ate our wraps and watched all of season 1 of "Dr. Thorne" which I heartily recommend.
Early Sunday morning we made another attempt to return home. (I had mistakenly promised Rebecca she'd be home on Saturday before her husband got home from his run.) This time we won the game. We flew into Atlanta, ignored the broken train system (trouble for hundreds of passengers. I hope it was short lived.) and walked through 2 concourses and shuttled to park and ride. We made it to church and hardly slept at all. What a great weekend! Thanks to all the dear people who participated. oxoxoxox
