Tuesday, January 14, 2020

Christmas letter 2019


Dear friends and family: You know those years that everything is pretty much the same as last year and you’re tempted to just change the date on your Christmas letter and send it out again? 2019 was not that year. So many new things happened you wouldn’t even recognize us. Well, that’s a stretch, but we have a lot of stories to tell. You’ll just get the highlights here, but give me a call sometime and I’ll fill you in.

In January my father passed away. He had been sick for a couple of years with many close calls. When it actually came time for him to go, I was strangely surprised. It had never happened before. How was it happening now? The Miller family gathered to Utah where we enjoyed a bittersweet reunion remembering Dad and the things he loved and our love for him. Then we moved Mom in to live with us in the sunny south. Summer was a little rough for her. She called the temps sweltering and didn’t appreciate the humidity’s influence on her hair. She misses Dad a lot, but she loves the people in GA and is enjoying the mild winter.


In April, Brandon and his family moved to GA, 12 minutes down the road. I know. I’m spoiled. Sunday family dinners brighten our Sabbath. The Star Wars and Legos are seeing the light of day, and I’m learning what aspects of my house are definitely not toddler proof. Just when I thought my k-12 school life was over, I’m back in music concerts and sports events. Woo Hoo!  And if ever I need a buddy to cook, craft or play, I just get in my car and pick one up.

In the summer, my Augusta family moved to California. It was a pretty big loss for the south. Even though they lived 3 hours from me and we didn't see each other as much as I would have liked, there was a perceivable disturbance in the force knowing that they now live The United States away.

We had some very fun Miller family news this year. My brother, Charlie, and his wife, Meg, had their 4th child, Brigham. All children are blessings, but Briggs is notable because he is my father's only grandson with the last name Miller. Considering the fact that there are 10 kids in our family, who knew that it would come down to the wire like this? Thanks for being born, Briggs.


Fall brought the start of school and that meant that the long awaited day of my last born going to college had arrived. We packed, flew, shopped, moved in, oriented, had some last minute instruction time, and then I left him. He worked hard and hopefully learned a lot. He came home a couple of weeks ago to tell the tales. He’s still alive, so we’ll call that a win. I'm very curious about his grade in a challenging class he wanted to, but didn't, give up on.  He said he'll check it sometime when he's in a bad mood. He doesn't want to ruin a good day.

Last month we received the unexpected news that my brother, Pete, had passed away. We hadn’t been in contact with him for many years, and my heart broke when I realized there was to be no reunion in this life. All my love and gratitude go to my Savior, Jesus Christ, for his Atoning Sacrifice. There is hope in Christ and because of him, all shall live again.
Which brings us to the topic of Christmas, what a blessed time this is as we celebrate the birth of God’s perfect son.  I’m grateful for the many blessings that are mine- home, nature’s beauty, trials, but most of all love of friends and family, you.

Love, Laurie, Paul and Janet

PS. If you’re wondering what’s going on with my kids:
Daniel and I (2 years ago, but we look about the same. Trust me.)
Daniel is in Boston flying the F-15 for the National guard.
Landon and Caleb


Brandon and Mallory live here. Brandon works for Chick Fil a (See pictures above.)
Rowan, Nathan, Jemma, Ariane, Caden, Theo, Jacob and Clementine, Hyrum, Eliza, Isla, Joseph, Emmaline and Alice.

Nathan and Ariane are in Sacramento. He works for Kaiser in Stockton. Rowan Thomas was born in September.

Aaron and Clarissa are still in NC. Aaron is in the Oral Surgery program at Fort Bragg. Miles Aaron was born last week.
Aaron, Redmond, Clarissa, Lucy
Lucy and Miles


Jacob and Alexa are in Sacramento. Jacob is in his last year of Medical school and is hoping to start a residency program next year.

Eliza and Joseph are in Walla Walla, Washington. Joseph is practicing Orthodontics. 

Andrew is in Orem. He only has an internship between him and his bachelor’s degree. Contact him if you have any leads. He’s open.
Nathan and Andrew

Rebecca has 2 semesters left before she graduates from BYU. She's doing her practicum this very minute.

Gabe just finished his first semester at BYU Idaho. He's off track right now, skipping the Idaho winter and trying to make some mulah. He'll go back to school in April.



Sunday, October 6, 2019

Miller super 8 video


Home Videos Bourbonnais IL





Lawrence KS home videos











Nebraska home videos. Behold your beautiful creations.

I haven't watched these videos in a long time. The first thing that hit me when I did was the beauty of these little children. I watched my young mother self ordering everyone around. Mercifully, I remember working very hard to be a good mother and feeling overwhelmed and inadequate most of the time, but I want to say "Behold your beautiful creations. Don't you want to just stop and kiss their little cheeks and hold them tight and never let go?" I know that's easy for me to say now. I can go to the bathroom without anyone coming in with me, and I get to sleep through the night, and I don't change any diapers or smell like spit up, but for real. These babies are delicious and need to be adored.

So, for the viewing pleasure of my posterity, I present "Nebraska."

























Monday, September 30, 2019

Home Videos 2002-2018

I love a long story so today I'm going to tell you why I'm creating this post. I have had many conversations with family members where we start reminiscing about this musical number or that performance or some video or other and then I can't find it. So today I'm going to put all my favorites that I can find right here. I won't have to blow up facebook and annoy the casual acquaintance or dear friend that has no interest in viewing hours of Stoker sharing. It will be safely hidden and preserved for posterity as long as the internet shall live.

Nathan, Jacob, Aaron, and Trevor "Short Skirt and Long Jacket" Miller reunion 2002


Miller reunion 2002 Ninja Andrew, Adorable Rebecca and rockin' Gabe
"Who Let the Dog's Out?"

Minnesota Talent Show
3 Little Pig Rap

Music Man-The Train

You've Got a Friend in Me

Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy

Lids

Gabe and Nathan dancing 2008

3 Little Pig Rap Alabama

Rebecca and Eliza silly "Sleep Tight" 7-2012

Aaron and Rebecca "Devil went Down to Georgia" Dec. 2012


Andrew's original song "We are just good friends" performed at the July 2013 family reunion talent show



                                     Nathan and Jacob performing "Lids" at the same talent show:

Girl's skit 7-13


                                                       Eliza and Joseph country dancing:

Brandon and Daniel Goober peas 7-13

                       Group "Livin' on a prayer "                          

Rebecca fiddling at Pioneer day 7-2013

Rebecca's Concert

Dec. 2013 Rebecca's violin

Trimming the Tree 2013

Winter Wonderland with the Jones12-2013

Cute Aaron and Clarissa 12-2013

Newsie groomsmen at Jacob's wedding 12-13


Johnson/Stoker dance party Jan 2014

Rebecca all county orchestra Jan, 2014

Rebecca strings attached May 2014

Sweet "Happy Mother's Day" from Andrew 2014

"Take me Home Country Roads" June 2014

Dooley June 2014

Happy Birthday Aaron

Rebecca Happy Father's Day 2014

"Bring Him Home" Becca and Jefferson Downs 2014

Oh Come, Oh Come Emmanuel

Happy Birthday Daniel Sept. 2014


Happy Birthday Andrew 2014

There's No Business Like Show Business

Man Has a Dream 2014

Christmas 2014 Alexa and Rebecca



Jingle Bells

Oh Little Town of Bethlehem

GABE-the song Rebecca wrote for Gabe Spring 2015


Cup Song practice in FL 2015

Lids July 2019

More Holiness Give Me Aug. 2015

Crayola Doesn't Make a Color for Your Eyes Sep. 2015


Stoker Snowball 2015

Man has a dream 2016 Grandpa and Emmaline


Reunion 2016 video "The Manly Program"

FR 2016 Dance Party



FR 2016 Eliza Tap Dance



FR 2016 All For Love

FR 2016 Say Something I'm giving up on you

"I Love to See the Temple" accompanied by Hyrum

FR 2016 Amazing Nathan and Ariane
Stoker Reunion 2016


New Year's Eve 2016

Feb. 2017

Gabe Mother's Day 2017

Caleb Mother's Day 2017

Landon Mother's Day 2017

Brandon and Annabelle

Happy Father's Day 2017

Dooley Dec. 2017

Christmas Eve 2017

Deck the Halls 2017

Jingle Bells 2017

Santa Clause is Coming to town 2017

2017 Stoker Christmas

2018


2018 Stoker Family Feature




Christmas Eve 2018















Monday, September 23, 2019

That's a wrap, and Happy Birthday to me.


Well it happened. I launched my 9th and final child into the world. I'm sad and happy and excited and anxious and thankful.

 My mom is living with me right now. My sister, Carrie, invited Mom to come and stay with her while I was out of town. Wednesday, I put her on the plane. Thursday, Gabe and I put ourselves on the plane. I was really looking forward to flying with a ticket instead of a standby seat request. Traveling is all about flexibility, however, even when you pay a lot of money for your seat. Our flight out of Atlanta was delayed and we did not make our connection in SLC.  We were put on standby for the next flight 3.5 hrs. later. I didn't love that, but I recognized the value in modeling for my son the principles of asking for help, being persistent in solving problems, and not killing anyone.

We made it to Idaho Falls and were elated to see that our luggage did too. I had rented an economy car so pulled out the old flexibility one more time when I was informed that all that was left was a big red pickup truck. When in Idaho, right? Although I'm pretty sure there was no time in any parking lot that I wasn't the only red pickup. I got a free tank of gas for my inconvenience, so I wasn't mad.

I was blessed to be staying with my sister and her awesome family. That gave me a home base in Ammon for my operations in Rexburg.

 Friday we moved Gabe into his first college apartment. (sniff) I had been encouraging him to save his quarters and take a lot of clothes because in college you spend some miserable hours in the laundromat fighting over washers and dropping a lot of money into dryers that don't work. I lost some college-life cred when we walked into Gabe's apartment and were met by a gleaming washer and dryer right outside his bedroom. Spoiled. After dropping his stuff we grabbed our complimentary doughnuts and fruit and started orientation. I was impressed with the organization and efforts of the school to help the students be successful. I felt confident that Gabe has a good chance for success, and this is the right school for him. I was further reassured when his cousins surrounded him with support and encouragement.

This kid is not a cooperative photo op model.


The beautiful art in Gabe's living room

window view


Cousins and sister giving Gabe the tour

With Gabe off to seek his fortune it was time for me to party. Rebecca came to town, but left quickly for I-night with the I-kids. I-night is the kick-off campus carnival. I chatted with my sis and her fam and had a marvelous time. 




Monday morning, Rebecca headed back to Provo. I went to Rexburg for one last trip to Wal-Mart with Gabe. He had had an incident on Friday. He was coming out of his orientation class and lost the nose pad to his glasses we had just taken in for a tune-up. He had the thought to retrace his steps to see if he could find it. That sounded like an impossibility to me, but he was back in about 30 seconds with the tiny little clear piece in hand. I'm counting that as a miracle. He tried to take the Wal-Mart bus on the weekend to visit the optical shop and stood right by the sign that said, "5:00" for about an hour. I was proud of him for having the courage to do something new. He can try that again soon. Anyway, we hopped into the red truck and solved the glasses problem and picked up the items on the list that 3 days on his own taught him he needed: a big bowl for popcorn, measuring spoons, butter, milk, pencil sharpener, pillow with a gusset, and a trash can. I dropped my brave guy off at his welding class and drove away. I love you Gabe. Go. Fight. Win.

In the meantime, it was my BD weekend. Rebecca presented me with this lovely gift of memories contributed by dear friends and family. It really was the best gift ever :) 

And then my Sissy took me to see "The Other Side of Heaven 2" I had wanted to see it so bad, but it had not come to a theater near me. Luckily, it was at Mary's dollar theater. I could tell it was a celebration, because we got popcorn and -wait for it- apple beer soda. The apple beer was special because when I was in High School my Dad drove me to youth night every week. Sometimes he stopped to get gas at the 7-11, and every once in a while he came out with a can of apple beer for us to share. I don't believe I've seen it anywhere since then. 


This spectacular event was followed by dinner with my sweet niece, Abigail, and her adorable family. We had delicious burnt sugar cake with browned butter frosting made by Annalisa. You know anything with burnt sugar and browned butter is going to be delectable, and it was. It was just a joyful day.





Then I woke up on my actual birthday at 4:45 am. I'm bragging, but it was 6:45 in GA so not that amazing. My goal was to attend the Idaho Falls temple at 6 am. I was trying to be so stealthy as I slipped out of the house into the rainy, cold, darkness. I clicked the fob to unlock the truck and actually started the engine. (These newfangled contraptions) I guess I was trying to turn it off, but inadvertently beeped the horn no less than 3 times. Rise and shine neighbors! I finally got into the cab but failed in getting the windshield wipers operational. I thought I knew what I was doing because I had turned on the wipers instead of the lights on the first night, but au contraire. Turns out, the ignition turns on with the fob, but the key needs to be inserted for anything to really work. It only took about 7 minutes for me to figure that out. I didn't have 7 minutes to spare, so I became that annoying late person at the temple. I was feeling the guilt and was much obliged to the woman who came in after me to remove the stain on my day from inconveniencing 40 people. (Happy Birthday to me.) Then after one last lunch with my sister and her sweet husband, return of my redneck red truck, and 4 minutes through security (woot), it was up, up and away. I watched "Gone With the Wind" for my in-flight BD movie. I like it better, now that I understand the south, but is there anyone more annoying on the planet than Scarlet O'hara?  I digress. I had a wonderful weekend and arrived safely home. I threatened to remodel Gabe's room, but I think I'll keep it just the way it is for now. I won't even make the bed. <3